THE MESSAGE YOUR HEART LONGS TO HEAR, Type 7, is, “You will be taken care of.” You naturally do not believe that others will be able to care for you and all your needs in the way that is best for you, so you go about obtaining experiences, needs, and wants by your own means.
The type 7 person is often drawn to a partner who gives them space, but also knows how to pull them back once in a while. They don’t want to feel smothered or like they are not free to explore the world around them. They need someone who trusts them and who has a sense…
How to Help a Stressed Enneagram Seven: Help them to calm down and take deep breaths. Guide them through observing their feelings, both physical and emotional. Meditation can be very helpful for Sevens. Encourage them to accept pain as well as pleasure. Be supportive as they vent or try to deal with their grief. Apr…
Unhealthy Sevens Their whole focus at this level is to escape anything that is causing them pain or boredom. They cannot tolerate being restricted or having limits placed on them, so they find ways to escape and find pleasure. They take more risks, are reckless, and are more prone to addictions.
They’re proactive towards you and not just reactive. I find it easier to maintain friendships when other people do the initiating. So it’s not that I don’t want to talk to you just because I don’t initiate, BUT, if I /do/ initiate, that means I REALLY want to talk to you.Mar 19, 2020
Type 5 individuals are often creative and passionate when it comes to love, but they aren’t the most emotionally expressive people. They love being able to share deep conversations about new ideas and theories, and enjoy a partner who can participate in this with them.Jun 25, 2020
Key Motivations: Want to express themselves and their individuality, to create and surround themselves with beauty, to maintain certain moods and feelings, to withdraw to protect their self-image, to take care of emotional needs before attending to anything else, to attract a “rescuer.”