Three dates is a good rule of thumb. If you’re not feeling any sense of chemistry or attachment, it’s OK to give up. If you want to keep trying, go for it, but make sure to be careful of his feelings too.May 30, 2012
How do you tell if a guy wants a relationship or just a hookup?
If it's been a few weeks or even months into seeing each other and he hasn't mentioned defining the relationship or setting more concrete labels, whether it's being exclusive or being official, then it shows that he just sees you as a ho